Facing fear: making fear work for you!

As I stepped onto the sideboard and gripped the handle of the rented Ford Expedition to hoist my petite frame into the seat, my heart pounded. I knew what lay ahead: miles of stunning landscapes filled with golden aspen trees, fiery red sumac, and chokecherry bushes, along with steep curves at high elevations. I felt both exhilarated and terrified. I rarely drive these days, and I’m certainly out of practice when it comes to handling a large vehicle like this. While my head understood the practical need for four-wheel drive to explore the gravel mountain passes I hoped to photograph, the rest of me was apprehensive about navigating tight turns and steep grades in a truck that felt enormous as I settled in for the drive.

Aware that I was at a moment of choice, I smiled and pushed through the fear. I made an agreement with myself to just take one mile at a time.  Letting it dictate my path would only limit the incredible experiences and unexpected joys awaiting me. The road ahead might be daunting and even dangerous at times, but my passion for exploration wasn’t going to be stifled by a few twists and turns.

I sometimes use fear as a motivator. It’s not my favorite tool, but sometimes it’s necessary to propel me forward. In this case, fear kept me alert, pushed me to plan ahead, and reminded me to trust in myself and the long-term skills I’ve developed as a driver and navigator. As each mile passed, my confidence grew, and the fear gradually faded, leaving me with a sense of accomplishment and success.

Do you push yourself to face your fears? Are you someone who embraces the "do it scared" approach, or does fear stand in the way of enjoying your life and achieving success? It might seem unusual to think of fear as a tool for empowerment and happiness, but with the right mindset, even the most challenging feelings can guide you on your journey.

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With gratitude and love,

Melisa